A REVIEW ON DISHEARTNED FEELINGS

      A REVIEW ON DISHEARTNED FEELINGS AND ITS IMPACT ON YOUR STATE OF MIND

A feeling, which many experience when they see people achieving heights of success and compare themselves to others, is very disheartening. They might have imagined themselves of being confident, proud and peaceful person but the idea of being in a state of self actualizing is on the way. When they see the reality, it is not the same as what they had thought of - they might have not imagined about doing things which they are doing at present. Maybe they are too ambitious and not able to accept rejection. All these feelings make them do so many other things which are nowhere related to their goals or the path on which they are walking on. 

Disheartenment is a feeling of bitterness, insecurity, rejection, a feeling of being unsuccessful and not wanted. In this era of competition we are constantly under social pressure, there is fear of defeat, as a result in order to achieve everything we put our hands in so many things that we end up doing nothing. There is an old saying that “too many cooks spoil the broth” and this is true. 

 We all know that life is not a bed of roses. In order to achieve something we have to lose something. So, to be successful in life you have to face many challenges. But when challenges come we get demotivated and disheartened. Instead of challenging our thoughts and feelings we end up criticizing ourselves, sympathizing ourselves, compare ourselves with the fellow mates. Though the fellow mates may also be on the same track but we feel that we are the only unlucky ones. Is this the right way of our behavior? We all come across this state of mind in our lives, when we struggle in the process of achieving our goals. Instead of challenging those situations we always give more importance to those feelings which are incongruent.

 There is a law of attraction which says that what we think is attracted towards us. If you keep on thinking about all the negative things then your mind will only respond to those feelings and will take you in the state of tension and rejection. On the other hand if you accept all those things happening in your life as a challenge and with a positive attitude you will definitely succeed in achieving your goals. A positive mind set and confidence will always reflect on the hard work you put in. Always remember that it is always we who make ourselves rise or fall. Its up to you what your preferences are, either you will sympathize with yourselves and keeps on being demotivated or cease those irrational thoughts and take action.