Sunday, July 4, 2021

LIVING IN FLOW


 

Have you ever spent what you thought was half an hour searching the internet, only to find out afterwards that your session lasted three hours? Or opened a book shortly after breakfast and a little while later noticed that it was getting darker?

Think of the moment in your life when you were so involved in what you were doing that the rest of the world seemed to have disappeared. About 90% can associate such a state with one or more activis call it ‘being in the zone’ others a ‘heighted state of consciousnesses’ and psychologist call it ‘being in a flow’.

 

MAKING THE FLOW HAPPEN

The state of flow happens under very specific conditions – when we encounter a challenge that tests our skills, and yet our skills, one can become anxious. If skills exceed challenges, we usually become bored (like bright kids at school). Neither of these two cases results in flow. Flow is a universal experience, which has several important characteristics:

Ø Clarity of goals and immediate feedback on progress.

Ø Complete concentration on what one is doing at the present moment, with no room in one’s mind for any other information.

Ø Actions and awareness are merged.

Ø Loosing awareness of oneself is also a common experience

Ø Sense of control of what one is doing, with no worries about failure.     

Ø Transformation of time.

What is also interesting in flow is the almost total absence of emotions during the actual process. We experience an increase in positive emotions after the occurrence of flow. For example, TV is not designed for blind people, so ‘watching’ TV is for them associated with a challenge – having to build mental images of the characters in the absence of being able to see them. It is not possible to say for certain which activities are definitely flow- related and which are not. What for one person is ‘a piece of cake’ can be a challenge for another. Remember, it is not just the balance between challenge and skills that are necessary for flow - both have to be stretched. Flow may be a state of ultimate enjoyment, but it requires effort and work.

 

Flow is the ultimate optimal experience. Abhram Maslow

(humanistic psychologist) coined the term peak experience to describe the joyous and exciting moments in the lives of every individual. In these moments we experience more whole, integrated, awareness of ourselves and deeply happy. We have a sense of trancedence, awe, unity and meaningfulness in life.

 

MENTAL HEALTH – Observe and Live Simply

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